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Take a close look at what this woman means to you, advises Annalisa Barbieri. I am Three years ago, I fell into a relationship with a woman who was We lied about our ages I said I was 35 and she said My friends are all finding their partners, marrying and having kids, while I am still casually dating someone who is older than my mum.
The other problem is that she is married. She and her ex are separated and due to divorce at some point. She also has children closer to me in age. I have never met themthanks to embarrassment on her part and reluctance on mine. Her friends are in their 50s and 60s, while mine are in their 20s and 30s. There have been instances where we have both found out, but decided to continue seeing each other. Lately she has been encouraging me to find someone closer to my own age. I genuinely do love her and I struggle to imagine life without her.
Yet I know when I am 38, she would be 60, which sounds alien. I would really appreciate some advice. I was struggling slightly to see what it is that keeps you together. You describe it as casual, but then also say you are in love with her. Despite your ages, it all sounds quite emotionally immature. Really the question is less what anyone else thinks, but what do you actually want?
I think you need to pay attention to this, because reticence is a great illuminator. I wonder what this woman provides you with? It can then become really addictive to try to make that person the person you need them to be [ie available].
Does her husband know about you?
You need to figure out what this woman represents to you and why. It would be foolish to leave this relationship without a really honest talk, if such a thing is possible. And there is no greater way of finding that out than spending some time by yourself.
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